Can A Straight Guy Ethically Accept Oral Sex From His Gay Buddy?
We all get vulnerable when we’re naked. Sexual egos are fragile, probably especially in men, who are expected to be sexually competent. We don’t want to criticize our partners’ performance in bed, for fear of hurting their feelings or making them not like us.
So I did what any girl would do to distract a guy from the fact she was bored – I asked him to leave. I concentrated on giving him an A++ head job. For John, kissing can be a defining factor in what makes a man gay. And despite having kissed another man, he still maintains his heterosexuality because he feels that his desire for women outweighs everything else. In her studies, Reynolds has found that in the case of straight women seeking out other women, it is usually because they feel neglected, but states that it doesn’t seem to be the same active motivator in cases with straight men who seek out other men. From her research, Reynolds found that ads from straight men online generally emphasize the no-strings-attached, NSA, aspect of sex.
In your email, you mention that “guys don’t turn me on at all” and that you don’t “have any homosexual tendencies.” It doesn’t seem as if you’re bothered by the fantasies; rather, you are curious about them. Having a fantasy about giving oral sex to someone of the same gender doesn’t necessarily connote being gay, as you note. And fantasies involving people you don’t typically have sex with are normal; many people have fantasies that they do not intend to act on.
I’m not saying it’s easy and enjoyable 100% of the time. It’s easier to accept the biological reality that sex isn’t always perfect and linear than it is the existential one that life or our relationship or whatever else isn’t perfect and linear either. I read some guy talking once about why men like a girl to swallow, aside from it just being easier and cleaner. He said something it was a kind of symbol about being accepted. Like, a girl swallowing his cum is the time he feels most vividly loved and accepted by another person. The next day, Sunday, was a long day.
If it’s OK for girls then I guess it fine for guys to do as well. I don’t find girls’ vaginas ugly at all. For me, seeing them up close is part of the turn-on of giving oral.
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Everything in this post is about individual experiences from whoever gave the tip, whether it be about giving or receiving oral sex. Often the fantasy of breaking social taboos is erotic. If something you fantasize about, such as performing oral sex on another man, really turns you on, you can decide to keep it in the realm of fantasy or you may decide it is something you really want to do.
It is almost if not more satifying than actually receiving pleasure yourself. Thank you for sharing you experience. I was talking about a similar topic with a friend, few days ago. I think it’s impossible for women to understand how the male brain works and vice versa.
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Theres no view more majestic n beautiful than that of a woman completely satisfied just laying there rubbing her body n legs all over the bed sheets as shes coming back down off her sexual high. Man-on-man sexual contact involving one or more straight guys is something that is baffling to many people, and for good reason. When we think of straight we assume it means that an individual’s sexuality goes in one, and only one, direction. Which isn’t completely wrong, but it is also entirely natural for people to find pleasure from contact in an erogenous area, regardless of societal stigmas involved. I’m a senior citizen, and yes, quite a few of us older guys trade blow jobs.
But, when it comes to the long practiced tradition of straight men having sex with other men, there seems to be a lot of debate. For the purpose of this article, we will not refer to these men as anything other than straight, and will not use quotations as it goes against their sexual identity, which will be respected. I mean…don’t just lie there and put it in, then be done with it. I love to make out, to do everything else that excites and titillates to make the actual intercourse that much hotter. If there’s no buildup, why would you want to do it at all? Take some time to give each other extra love before the main event, including oral.
After he came in and came upstairs, he got naked and sat down on the bed along with Tall Guy. When people think of oral sex, they think it’s the law to just use your tongue and nothing else. This is false information so fuck that. Guys, this is the moment the penny drops. I don’t mean go all about fingerblasting and the likes.