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13 Of The Kinkiest Fantasies People Are Into

When you go down on your guy, you are saying that you trust him because you are comfortable being completely vulnerable with him. My guess is, he would feel not quite as bad about that as I do when he cums in my mouth, I swallow it, and then he refuses to kiss me until I brush my teeth. One of my bottom lines as a sex therapist is that we all get to make our own decisions about what feels right for our sex lives. If you’re genuinely uncomfortable with swallowing, keep a box of tissues nearby and discretely spit into them when finished.

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Putting a penis in one’s mouth is not as simple an endeavor as one might assume it is. Learning how to give a blowjob is a complicated process that can be a source of anxiety, fear, and unexpectedly deep soul searching. While the person being fellated might not be aware, the person on the other end is being bombarded with a lot of blowjob-related mind garbage. But no one ever talks about these little nagging things that have to do with giving head. It’s difficult enough to bring up blowjobs around the water cooler or at a dinner party, so getting into the dirty little details can be tough.


Sorry to be vulgar but oral sex is all about vulnerability and trust. It doesn’t matter whether you’re an established spitter or swallower, or how many times you’ve had a man cum in your mouth. There’s always an intense anxiety when you feel him come close to orgasm. Even though you know, you’re still scared. For instance, every time it comes to that point, I start worrying that so much semen is going to squirt out so hard and fast that I will choke on it.

We live in a society of overstimulation that makes the average person numb to things that should feel wonderful. The only way that seems to fix it is bigger, faster, harder, and stronger which in turn makes them even more numb. “I’m into polyandry, as in one woman and two men. Preferably all three in a relationship together.”

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If you’re overly ambitious and try to take a penis too far into your mouth, especially for a long period of time, you might find yourself making some less-than-sexy gagging noises. Some people might be into this, but for the person giving the blow job, it feels pretty terrible to choke and have tears streaming down our faces because our gag reflexes are protesting our choices. Plus, the visual element of watching their penis slip in and out of a mouth really gets a lot of people going, Marin adds. Not to mention, unlike a hand job or even penetrative sex, no one can replicate the sensation of a blow job on their own . Your mouth is wet and warm, like a vagina (or a lubed-up hand), but your lips and tongue are living, roving, irreplaceable works of art. My first time receiving a blow job was a saturday night after a crazy friday.

A man who blows his load without some kind of warning. Most men are guilty of committing this crime at least once in their life, so don’t even try to deny it. Dr. Jess recommends “the giraffe,” which entails you lying on your back with your head hanging over the bed and your partner straddling you from a standing position. You can also try “facesitter,” she says, which has you lying on your back and your partner kneeling over your lips. You can also lick or caress the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus. “Try using a vibrating toy against this spot,” suggests Dr. Jess.

On average, men take three to five minutes to orgasm, so you don’t usually need to worry about finding a position that will be comfortable for the long haul. Still, you want to find a position that feels good for you. It’s generally easiest to be on your knees (put a blanket or pillow underneath if you’re on a hard surface), in between their legs. He can be sitting on the edge of the bed or sofa , or standing. Being able to watch is an extremely hot part of the process, so it’s nice to give them a good view.

For many, this is the most sensitive area. Make your tongue pointy, and lick up and down or side to side. Look, I don’t want to brag but, like, I work out. Even still, there’s no workout quite like kneeling with no hands for support (one’s on the shaft, the other’s on the balls) while angling your face downward and bobbing your head up and down. There’s no amount of yoga that will prepare your core for the exercise of giving head. It’s a full-body experience that requires poise, concentration, balance, and abs and thighs of steel.

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